Has anyone experienced this in AT... There are some followers who are very good at AT.(technically great) ..yet I find it very difficult to connect with them when I dance with them- we are totally out of synch, no connection etc. Awkward for both of us and not enjoyable at all. Whereas...with most other followers, I have a fantastic connection, we are in synch amd genuinely enjoy each others company. As a result, you bet the dance is on a different level. Is this common (I suspect it is), and is it a reflection of me as a leader that I can't lead a small section of followers? I've heard that a good lead can make any follower shine.. Anyone. On the other hand, I've also heard that it's unrealistic to expect that..that there will always be some followers that you simply are out of tune with no matter how good they and you are.