Thank you all again for your replies & sage advice. My mindset has definitely changed for the better, thanks Phooey I plan on purely enjoying the dancing for what it is & leaving it at that. I was jist curious about what AT was! Lol Ps. I have asked the moderators if its possible for the OP to delete threads in case of indulging in one's feelings and regretting it later on, but no reply yet.. Would anyone here happen to know how to delete a thread? Thank you!