In my experience, usually, you have more ladies than fellows at group lessons. To improve my lead, I'd like to get more following experience. In a group lesson of... say 30-40 couples (Salsa), I'm concerned there might be few fellows who would not like the idea of dancing with a man. Any suggestions? Should I ask every man if he is ok to dance with a dude? Should I cross dress for such an occasion? Should I ask the instructor to ask the group first? I know it's not unusual for an instructor to cross the roles, but is it socially acceptable for a student to do that?